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The Art of Fighting: Building Better, Stronger Relationships

with Priya Parker
2026-09-15 15:00:00 2026-09-15 16:00:00 America/Chicago The Art of Fighting: Building Better, Stronger Relationships Join master facilitator Priya Parker for a conversation about her new book, The Art of Fighting, and discover how conflict can strengthen relationships and create positive change. Please register. Virtual -

Tuesday, September 15
3:00pm - 4:00pm

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Join master facilitator Priya Parker for a conversation about her new book, The Art of Fighting, and discover how conflict can strengthen relationships and create positive change. Please register.

In The Art of Fighting: The Transformative Power of Conflict, Priya Parker explains that we can’t form and grow effective relationships without a fight. She rejects the idea that conflict is abnormal or that good groups don’t fight. All groups change and evolve; indeed, it’s because people disagree that good groups flourish.

As she did in the now-classic The Art of Gathering, Parker draws on her far-reaching experience as a conflict facilitator, her own detailed research, and real-world examples to lay out the ways that people can identify disputes, determine how to address them, and what to do if they are insurmountable. Whether people disagree in the boardroom or the locker room, on a playground or in church, online or in person, conflict is a part of life, and understanding healthy conflict and how to harness its power is more important than ever. The Art of Fighting is a vital primer to help all of us understand how to do that.

Register today to learn how to turn everyday arguments into profound moments of connection and trust!

About the Author: Priya Parker is an internationally recognized expert on creating purposeful gatherings and reimagining how we come together in our communities and our workplaces. She is a conflict facilitator, strategic advisor, speaker, and author of the acclaimed book The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why it Matters and the host of The Art of Gathering Digital Course. 

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Live Virtual Author Talks - This new series through Library Speakers Consortium offers live online talks by bestselling authors of books in a variety of genres. Participants receive a link to the program when they register. Please see https://libraryc.org/gailborden to register and also view recorded videos of past speakers.

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Main Library
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Nuestras Historias - Hispanic Heritage Project - Celebrating Hispanic Culture & Community Exhibit
Tue, Sep 15, 9:00am - 9:00pm
Main Library
A documentary, traveling exhibit, and community project preserving the stories and contributions of Elgin area’s Hispanic community.
Glitz, Glam, Gorgeous 2 - Hollywood Costumes Exhibit
Tue, Sep 15, 9:00am - 9:00pm
Main Library
The Glitz, Glam, Gorgeous 2: Hollywood Costumes exhibit returns with more than 20 new, one-of-a-kind costumes worn by legendary stars including Marilyn Monroe, Ginger Rogers and more.
Mexico & Puerto Rico Art Display
Tue, Sep 15, 9:00am - 9:00pm
Main Library
Celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month with a beautiful collection of artwork created by local artists that highlight the cultural richness and traditions of Hispanic communities.
Baby Rhyme Time - For ages 0-11 months
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Bounce & Rhyme Storytime - Ages 0-3
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The Art of Fighting: Building Better, Stronger Relationships - with Priya Parker
Tue, Sep 15, 3:00pm - 4:00pm
Virtual
Join master facilitator Priya Parker for a conversation about her new book, The Art of Fighting, and discover how conflict can strengthen relationships and create positive change. Please register.
Register
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Tue, Sep 15, 6:30pm - 7:30pm
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