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Creating Lasting Friendships in an Increasingly Lonely World

The Power of Connection: with Dr. Marisa Franco

2026-07-28 13:00:00 2026-07-28 14:00:00 America/Chicago Creating Lasting Friendships in an Increasingly Lonely World Join us in virtual conversation with bestselling author Dr. Marisa Franco, one of the world’s leading experts in human connection. Please register. Virtual -

Tuesday, July 28
1:00pm - 2:00pm

Join us in virtual conversation with bestselling author Dr. Marisa Franco, one of the world’s leading experts in human connection. Please register.

Psychologist, Professor, and New York Times Bestselling Author Dr. Marisa Franco's book, Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make–And Keep–Friends, explores the science of different attachment styles and how they impact our relationships–often in ways we don’t realize!

How do we make and keep friends in an era of distraction, burnout, and chaos, especially in a society that often prizes romantic love at the expense of other relationships? In Platonic, Dr. Marisa G. Franco unpacks the latest, often counterintuitive findings about the bonds between us—for example, why your friends aren’t texting you back (it’s not because they hate you!), and the myth of “friendships happening organically” (making friends, like cultivating any relationship, requires effort!). As Dr. Franco explains, to make and keep friends you must understand your attachment style—secure, anxious, or avoidant: it is the key to unlocking what’s working (and what’s failing) in your friendships.

Making new friends, and deepening longstanding relationships, is possible at any age—in fact, it’s essential. The good news: there are specific, research-based ways to improve the number and quality of your connections using the insights of attachment theory and the latest scientific research on friendship. Platonic provides a clear and actionable blueprint for forging strong, lasting connections with others—and for becoming our happiest, most fulfilled selves in the process.

Register today to learn more about how to harness the science of human connection to create cultures of belonging. 


About the Author: An enlightening psychologist, New York Times bestselling author, and TED speaker, Dr. Marisa G. Franco is known for digesting and communicating science in ways that resonate deeply enough with people to change their lives. 

Dr. Franco works as a professor at The University of Maryland and authored Platonic: How The Science of Attachment Can Help You Make – and Keep – Friends. She writes about friendship for Psychology Today and has been a featured connection expert for major publications like The New York Times, The Telegraph, and Vice.

Dr. Franco speaks on belonging at corporations, government agencies, non-profits, and universities across the country, including Harper Collins Publishers, Cisco, American Association for the Advancement of Science, and The Department of State.


Please Register for link to program.


Live Virtual Author Talks - This new series through Library Speakers Consortium offers live online talks by bestselling authors of books in a variety of genres. Participants receive a link to the program when they register. Please see https://libraryc.org/gailborden to register and also view recorded videos of past speakers.

AGE GROUP: | Virtual Live | Adults |

EVENT TYPE: | Virtual | Health & Wellness | Adult Programs |

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Sun, Jul 26, 12:00pm - 5:00pm
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Sun, Jul 26, 1:00pm - 1:15pm
South Elgin Branch
Practice your reading skills by cuddling up with a good book and reading aloud to a fully trained and certified therapy dog. Registration required. For grades K through 8.
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Sun, Jul 26, 1:15pm - 1:30pm
South Elgin Branch
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Sun, Jul 26, 1:30pm - 1:45pm
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Practice your reading skills by cuddling up with a good book and reading aloud to a fully trained and certified therapy dog. Registration required. For grades K through 8.
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Sun, Jul 26, 1:45pm - 2:00pm
South Elgin Branch
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Sun, Jul 26, 2:00pm - 2:15pm
South Elgin Branch
Practice your reading skills by cuddling up with a good book and reading aloud to a fully trained and certified therapy dog. Registration required. For grades K through 8.
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Sun, Jul 26, 2:15pm - 2:30pm
South Elgin Branch
Practice your reading skills by cuddling up with a good book and reading aloud to a fully trained and certified therapy dog. Registration required. For grades K through 8.
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Sun, Jul 26, 2:30pm - 2:45pm
South Elgin Branch
Practice your reading skills by cuddling up with a good book and reading aloud to a fully trained and certified therapy dog. Registration required. For grades K through 8.
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Sun, Jul 26, 2:45pm - 3:00pm
South Elgin Branch
Practice your reading skills by cuddling up with a good book and reading aloud to a fully trained and certified therapy dog. Registration required. For grades K through 8.
Registration is now closed

Mon, Jul 27, 9:00am - 9:00pm
Main Library
Explore our changing planet through a different lens, immerse yourself in incredible ecosystems and learn how the smallest of actions can have a big impact on our natural world.

Mon, Jul 27, 10:00am - 10:30am
Main Library - Meadows Community Rooms ABC
Join us for an interactive storytime! Best for kids birth-6 years with an adult caregiver. All ages are welcome. Drop-in!

Mon, Jul 27, 10:00am - 11:00am
South Elgin Branch - South Elgin - Hoffer Meeting Room
Everyone is welcome to join us!

Mon, Jul 27, 12:00pm - 2:00pm
Main Library - Studio 270 Digital Media Lab
Explore the basics of video creation in this hands‑on beginner camp designed for students in grades 6–12.
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Mon, Jul 27, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
Main Library - Lobby - Piano
Piano performance in the lobby by volunteer community members.

Mon, Jul 27, 12:00pm - 1:00pm
Main Library - Meadows Community Room A
Opportunity to practice your Spanish in an informal setting led by our Volunteer Facilitator, Renee Ritzel. Please Register.
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Mon, Jul 27, 2:00pm - 3:00pm
Main Library - Sally Lee Fox & Eagle Rooms
Join a member of Kane County Animal Control to learn the basic do's and don’ts of pet care and local wild animal safety.

Mon, Jul 27, 3:15pm - 4:15pm
Mobile Services
1300 N McLean Blvd, Elgin, IL 60123

Mon, Jul 27, 3:30pm - 4:30pm
Mobile Services
Joslyn Dr. Elgin near Parkwood Clubhouse

Mon, Jul 27, 4:30pm - 5:15pm
Mobile Services
Food For Greater Elgin – 1553 Commerce Dr.- Elgin 60123

Mon, Jul 27, 4:45pm - 5:45pm
Mobile Services
926 Congdon Ave. Elgin

Mon, Jul 27, 5:00pm - 6:00pm
Mobile Services - Sprinter
Lincoln Elementary School, 1650 Maureen Dr, Hoffman Estates, IL 60192

Mon, Jul 27, 6:00pm - 8:00pm
Main Library - Conference Room
Get hooked on needlework! Bring a project to work on. All skill levels welcome. Please register.

Mon, Jul 27, 6:00pm - 6:45pm
Main Library - Outdoor Stage
Join Grammy-nominated children’s music duo Wendy and DB at the Gail Borden Main Library outdoor stage for a joyful, high-energy family concert. Moves indoors if weather requires.

Mon, Jul 27, 6:30pm - 7:30pm
Mobile Services
1520 Maureen Dr. Hoffman Estates